Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Why do white people hate talking about race?


On yesterday, I gave myself permission to relax and reflect on the state of America since that dreadful day – September 11, 2001.  So much has happened since that day.  We have our first black President.  We entered wars in Iraq and Afghanistan Troops are coming home, and Ben Laden is dead.
The days following the collapse of the World Trade Center united America like I’ve never seen.  American flags could be found everywhere, and the call for unity stirred a deep pride and hope in the declarations of our Constitution.  There was a movement beyond our differences.  Those who died that day represented the myriad of cultures that make for this amazing union.
I began to believe in America again.  That’s a statement that many have a hard time conceding.   What you mean again! We are quick to pronounce America as the best nation in the world.  Patriotism is not only expected, it is demanded.  Shame on anyone who challenges the U.S.A’s place as the best nation in the world. 
The aftermath of 911 brought a movement of change.  Enter the candidacy of Barack Obama.  Something was happening in America.  Like magic, the plight of the past was minimized for the collective good.  Black people could no longer talk about the implications of racism and the continued strain of those living with disadvantage.
Jeremiah Wright, former pastor at Trinity United Church of Christ, was attacked for what black preachers do.  He confronted the hypocrisy of America in a speech were he declared “God, damn America.”  It was a sermon that came after 911.  It was used to expose the radical ways of Wright and the allegiance between Obama and Wright.
The underlying assumption was Obama is too black to be America’s President.  After challenging the church Obama attended, it was rumored he’s not a Christian.  That was followed by questions regarding his citizenship.  People argued that Obama is a terrorist plant.
The insanity has intensified since Obama became America’s first black President.  White people now claim they are being discriminated against due to their race.  “Obama hates white people,” a man stated on NPR.  It’s a sentiment spoken in numerous camps.  People are tired of black people talking about race.
The use of the word black stirs the pot of hostility.  “Although I do not support Rev Wooden's position, objecting to his statement because he is a black minister is wrong,” AJW responded to my recent blog. “We should expect a better argument from you than that, just as we should expect better arguments from Blacks who support the president and from Whites to oppose him because of his color.
According to AJW, it’s not appropriate to raise questions related to the changing culture among black ministers.  It is significant that a black pastor embraces a Republican agenda, but AJW refuses to concede the importance in pondering the shift.  Race, in his mind, shouldn't enter the conversation.  As insensitive as that may be, it’s not even the tip of the iceberg.
A student at Towson University is fighting to start a “White Student Union” on the campus.  Matthew Heimbach says the center will allow students to gather to support ideas of white people.  He wants a place that allows students a place to appreciate their history and heritage.
Heimbach was previously involved with an organization called Youth for Western Civilization, a group that placed messages of white pride across the Maryland campus. “When you have a group that calls themselves the White Student Union, their only purpose is generally hostility towards those who are non-white,” says Richard Vatz, professor at Townson University and a former advisor of the Youth for Western Civilization.
The point is, if black folks can have a center, we want one too.  Heimbach fails to understand the history behind culture centers is due to how history has been taken away and not taught in those history books. 
The thought fueling Heimbach’s agenda is a growing perception among white people.  They are tired of talking about racism.  Bob Parks has produced a video that asserts white people can’t criticize Obama without it being viewed as racist.   Check it out at: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AbULBAjstBA
Bob makes a good point.  It is possible to oppose Obama for reasons other than his race, but it’s also possible that people are against him because of his race?  It’s one of those things black people carry every day.  You never know the real reason behind not getting that big foot in the door.  It could be because the other guy or girl is more qualified. Or, it could be because of race.
“Man, ole dude checked ‘other’ in the box where they asked for his race,” I overheard a guy say at a bus stop.”  When he came in for the interview they saw he was a Nigger.  They said we will call you.  He’s been waiting for that call for 6 months.”
The two men laughed.  It wasn’t funny.  It could have been about race.
So much has happened since 911.  Some for the good.  Some for the bad.  Most of it is in flux.
One thing is clear.  White folks don’t like to talk about race.
Sorry, we need to have this talk.

3 comments:

  1. "White folks don’t like to talk about race."

    A bit of a generalization, no?

    Definition of PREJUDICE
    1
    : injury or damage resulting from some judgment or action of another in disregard of one's rights; especially : detriment to one's legal rights or claims
    2
    a (1) : preconceived judgment or opinion (2) : an adverse opinion or leaning formed without just grounds or before sufficient knowledge

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  2. Of course it's a generalization. All discussions about race are generalizations. At issue is with how to move past those generalizations.

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  3. First, let me say that I am white and so that will color (bleach?) my take on this.

    Most white people absolutely hate to talk about race. I think there are several reasons for this:

    1. We're bad at it. Every adult white person has said and done racially insensitive things, and good white people are deeply humiliated by their own missteps. Black kids get talked to about the various meanings and effects of race in this country. They are taught its language and history and nuances. White kids are either indoctrinated as racists or kept as ignorant as possible most of the time. Neither is a position of strength, and both lead to embarrassing yourself in public (if you have any capacity for shame). So, we avoid it.

    2. It makes us feel bad. Since we do screw up, we are afraid of being (mis?)identified as racists. Getting called racist is viscerally upsetting to decent white people. You can call me any four letter word you want and I won't blink, but call me a racist and I'll go home and cry. Kind of like I imagine the n word to be, only, of course, with some important distinctions.

    3. We have a vested interest in keeping things as they are and/or dialing the clock backwards. It makes us harder to move forward, for sure. We don't want to be racists, we know it's wrong, but, let's face it, white privilege is pretty awesome for white people. We want to avoid the moral responsibility for racism, but we still want to reap the benefits of it. This is obviously untenable, so we resort to denial.

    4. It would be much easier to remain in denial if everybody would just be quiet.

    I have more I could say, but those are my initial thoughts. What does "why" look like through your eyes? I am interested to hear, because I am white, and we are experts at lying to ourselves so I always like to check and see if I'm at it again. :)

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